Welcome to SessionGirls.com. Our ultimate goal is to provide you a safe, fun and pleasant experience. Here are some tips to get a trouble-free session that will be enjoyable and to your satisfaction.
For your best experience
The best way to have a successful session is to understand that every girl on this site is different. We feel that this is the beauty of this forum. Please realize that just because you contact a lady, she still has the RIGHT TO SAY NO to any person if she feels that you are not a good match. Don't get offended or take it personally if a lady says no to a session with you. Communication is key. The more you are both on the same page the more likely it will lead to an enjoyable session. We also recommend giving at least 24 hours for a lady to give a response to you. And if a lady has been with us a while, she may even have her own referrals from a gentleman she knows. We recommend you gather your information directly from the source, the session lady.
Keep your emails concise and to-the-point
These girls get A LOT of emails from guys that aren't serious about booking a session, so a short and to-the-point email will definitely increase your likelihood of it getting read and responded. Emails that are too long or make you sound like a weirdo often get ignored. In addition, girls usually have a "hard limit" on the number of emails they are willing to receive before they actually get a deposit. It varies from girl to girl, but it's usually around 5 or so. After that, they'll cut you off, so try to keep your communication within that limit. Girls understand that they are going to get new gentlemen. As long as they give a solid and sincere good impression, there's no need to feel you will get a full "no" for a session.
A good example of an email that will actually be answered
> Hi SessionWrestler,
> My name is, ________ and I am interested in a fantasy wrestling
> session on Wednesday sometime between 2 and 4pm. I have sessioned
> with, _________** and you can email her at this address to obtain a
> reference. I am 170 lb, 25 years old, and 5'11.
Things that are useful to include in initial emails are:
- age, weight, height
- type of session you want
- reference from another session wrestler
Make the girl feel SAFE
Try to book a major name-brand hotel. One with indoor hallways, cameras, and hotel security in them. If you mention this to the girl, emphasize safety and don't come across as a weirdo, you will be more far likely to get a booking.
Please respect tapouts!
Spend a few minutes BEFORE the session to clarify wants, danger zones, and limits. Competitive and semi-competitive wrestling means different things to different people. It's important to communicate limits, expectations, and danger zones to make sure that both you and the specific session lady are on the same page. Please remember that session wrestling is many of these girl's livelihoods and an injury would be catastrophic to a sessiongirl's income. Good communication is key to avoiding injury for both parties! "Safe words" are often useful in these contexts. Please communicate it if something gets too intense for either one of you. Avoiding injury is much better than fixing the injury once it happens.
For semi-competitive or above, we recommend using wrestling matts.
SessionGirls.com now has a scammer section, avoid being put on there
SessionGirls.com now has a scammer section where we report abusive behavior. If we get a report about someone putting a girl in danger, that person will be posted up as a "dangerous person" in our scammers section with all the relevant information, including your name. SessionGirls.com will also cooperate with law enforcement if need be. We will try to be fair and not "dox".
We are doing this as a deterrent for bad behavior. Once people realize that there are repercussions for their bad actions, they will be less likely to do them. We want to have a positive impact on the sessioning community by steering behavior in the right direction.
Girls exchange information about problematic guys
Just to let you know, the girls have a means to exchange information with other girls about problem clients. Example: being harassed, being difficult to work with, asking for sex, putting them in any sort of danger, etc. We moderate the database to make sure "good guys" are not listed, for privacy reasons. But we still have to balance privacy with girl safety. So if you don't want to be on that list, please be good.
Check reviews on the girl before you session
Our SessionGirls.com site is the best source for real reviews of the ladies. A girl is considered "safe" if she has been with us for a while, has more than one good review, and has a "verification" picture. BE AWARE: We do NOT recommend the "gossip board" sites to check reviews of our ladies. These sites contain a few bad apples that unfortunately spread untruthful comments and gossip about ladies (often times because things didn't work out with that particular lady). A portion of you will thus miss out on some of our extremely reputable ladies due to silly lurker comments on such sites.
Beware of new profiles
Check the newness of the girl and her experience in the mixed wrestling scene before you book a session. Do NOT send large deposits to new girls especially if there are no reviews. Please do your research because unfortunately we will not be able to get your money back if a girl is found to be a scammer. Girls that are found to steal deposits are removed from the site immediately.
Beware of paying through "gift cards"
Every lady has different preferences of how to receive payments (PayPal, Venmo, Bitcoin, cash, etc). Beware of sending "gift cards". Scammers posing as girls often ask for gift cards because it is hard to reverse the transaction once it goes through. If the account is new and they are asking for payment in gift cards, our suggestion is to skip the girl and report them to us. However since we recently incorporated the photo verification feature, the scamming is less likely although still possible.
Consider using Bitcoin
Bitcoin is a pseudo-anonymous way to transfer payments safely and security. It is far more anonymous than either PayPal or Venmo and the fees are basically zero. Money cannot also not be seized by banks (which is a constant problem in the adult industry). If PayPal or Venmo are giving you problems or are not private enough for you, we recommend you look into bitcoin.
Go to coinbase.com, get an account, and pay using that. A lot of girls have their PayPal and Venmo account closed, largely because sessioning violates the terms of service with these companies. So bitcoin is a good workaround that is useful to them.
Girls, especially traveling girls, have many sessions back-to-back and being late can interfere with their schedule. Please do not expect the full hour when you are late since other clients are more than likely scheduled right after you. Our ladies try to be respectful of your time, so you should try to be equally respective of theirs. Everyone is on a schedule so do communicate and aim to practice being prompt.
Please use good hygiene
Smelling fresh and clean while engaging in a session is appreciated and a sign of respect on both ends. This detail is enough to make an impression of whether to see that person again. Remember, guys, this is wrestling. Shower, brush teeth, and be clean in consideration of the girl.
No sexual services!
This is a mixed wrestling and muscle worship site that offers a variety of sessions with female athletes and strong, muscle ladies that are hard to find in regular life. We aim to be respectful of the Fosta/Sesta laws. So please do not ask for sexual services including “hand release”, “GFE” (Girlfriend Experience), etc. This puts a lot of girls in uncomfortable positions and is generally an unkind thing to do.
Please respect personal lives
Our ladies are expected to respect your personal life and it is also expected that you should respect theirs. Try not to overwhelm a lady with too many emails or texts. It's important to understand ladies can't communicate all the time as some have families, the same as you do.
MOST IMPORTANTLY: this is not a dating site! While friendships can be made and long-standing session relationships are common, this is not a site to find a girlfriend or a mate.
Finally, have fun!
Our goal is to make both gentlemen and ladies happy in a win-win scenario. Except in the actual case when you lose. Wink, wink :))
All the best to you and thank you for being a part of our unique community! All of your support is greatly appreciated.